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(no subject) [May. 14th, 2009|10:07 pm]


Dallas Dating Examiner: Save the Date: Are you too boring?

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Gardening soothes the soul [May. 5th, 2009|03:37 pm]

Snapdragons in the garden, originally uploaded by trixieskips

I grew up loving okra plants. My dad had a small garden in the backyard and those okra plants were the coolest thing--we could actually eat the things that grew on them! And that cornmeal-coated, peppery fried okra was so tasty.

That love of the garden has followed me into adult life, but my apartments meant it had to happen in containers. Fine and dandy, but I always dreamed of living in a house with a square of dirt for me to play.

Moving in with Tim last September has fulfilled several dreams: having family over and hosting Thanksgiving; having space to hang art on the walls and not worry about a deposit; finding my mate and living with him... It has also provided me ample room to plant, plant, plant!

Our garden is about nine-by-seven and last week, after giving up on our pathetic seeding attempt, we bought plants and put in red bell peppers, three kinds of tomatoes, English cucumbers, hot peppers, two kind of basil, cilantro, watermelon, and cantaloupe. And, of course, okra! These join the strawberries, blueberries, blackberries, and fig tree planted a few weeks and months before.

Yesterday, I got tired of looking at the dying pansies in our brand-new brick planter around the tree in the front, so I drove to Ruibal's on Garland Road and bought three flats of flowers and decorative plants for that space.


I'm frequently disappointed upon first planting flowers because they need so much time to spread out and grow into their potential glory and this was no exception. After two hours of pulling up old plants and digging holes for the new ones, the dwarf snapdragons, red burgundy coleus, and white star zinnias look a little puny. But I trust the rain and a good dose of MiracleGrow to make my pretties get big and bushy.

That wait for the glory, the time it takes, the care and ongoing love and devotion required to make a garden or planter look fabulous, that's what I love most. To nurture something and see it reach its zenith because of your own hard work, that is a brilliant experience. I can hardly wait.

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One year! [Apr. 6th, 2009|03:41 pm]

Tim and me, originally uploaded by trixieskips

Today is one year since I quit drinking and it's fairly amazing to me. I am so happy and grateful. My wonderful Tim sent me flowers and I am relaxing before speaking tonight. What a day. What a year!

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Danish bicycles [Apr. 2nd, 2009|03:30 pm]
This video made me nostalgic in the extreme for Denmark, a country where cycle chic is the style for almost everyone. "Cyclepigen" means biking girl, btw. Look how lovely it is there...

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Love this season's yellows [Mar. 26th, 2009|06:01 pm]

Love this season's yellows, originally uploaded by trixieskips

How fun is polyvore.com? I've been playing around with my favorite colors, finding all sorts of awesome clothes and shoes that are in style this season. Yellow!


And blue! Is that blue-and-black short skirt not the cutest thing? I love designing these images, too.

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Two new prints, DIY style [Mar. 22nd, 2009|11:21 pm]

New art, originally uploaded by trixieskips

A few months ago, I ran across the work of Heather Powazek Champ on flickr. Her pictures have a Creative Commons license that allow printing and I adore her style, so I blew up two of my favorites from her sprockets set. Both are 20x30 and look so beautiful in our home.

"Persimmons, Flying Cloud," above, is hanging above our bed. "The Accordionist, Golden Gate Park," below, is hanging at the end of our entry hallway, right before the kitchen. I sit and stare dreamily at them both, loving them intensely.



Other ones I am thinking of framing include Cairn, Fort Funston and Untitled.

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The demise of my Quick work [Mar. 14th, 2009|04:37 pm]
So I've had a few days to digest the news that the last of my columns for Quick is being killed. To recap: In late 2008, the humor column ROTFLMAO went the way of the velociraptor when the paper was redesigned. Nothing personal, my editor said, but it would be confusing to have two columns by one person. Understandable.

Then earlier this year, the Girl Talk podcast (and the others on the site) was killed due to budget cuts. Other freelance pieces I was writing or planning to, like restaurant profiles, fitness trends, music...all gone.

This week, my editor called to let me know the Girl Talk dating column was history as of April. Budget cuts again.

While I had taken the other ones fairly well, losing this one hurt. Big hurt. I actually started crying when we hung up and felt this tremendous, tearing grief for the professional identity I've crafted through my Quick work. I have adored writing dating pieces, getting to talk to people and have them trust me with their stories, their pain, their joy, their wisdom. I am always honored to earn that trust.

In the days since then, I've reflected on what I learned while doing this work and I have decided to own my own brand, own my own professional image, and keep doing it all on my own. My website is being relaunched this week (designed by the super-duper Angela Faz!) and I intend to start a link at leahshafer.com/blog that is dedicated to my work. I will continue to make podcasts, continue to write dating pieces. I even got a nibble from another publication interested in carrying some of my relationship work. That is absolutely thrilling.

So, a loss. A sad one. And an opportunity to grow professionally. That dating book I have been fiddling about on for a year now, I feel its siren call very loud this week. The general theme now is, "How NOT to suck: Being good at your relationship is easier than you think."

I am optimistic and content. I have faith that the future will take care of itself beautifully as long as I keep showing up, doing the work, and aiming my creativity in its direction.
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Vote for Lady Bird! [Mar. 9th, 2009|07:53 pm]

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Somebody does not like the hairdryer [Mar. 2nd, 2009|05:28 pm]

Matilda gets a bath
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And she's four pounds of fury after a bath!
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A little before and after [Feb. 27th, 2009|11:16 am]
Matilda got spayed two weeks ago and was a sad little creature the day she got home. But within 48 hours, she was all naughty and all busy once again.



All healed up!
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