| Danish bicycles |
[Apr. 2nd, 2009|03:30 pm] |
This video made me nostalgic in the extreme for Denmark, a country where cycle chic is the style for almost everyone. "Cyclepigen" means biking girl, btw. Look how lovely it is there...
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| The demise of my Quick work |
[Mar. 14th, 2009|04:37 pm] |
So I've had a few days to digest the news that the last of my columns for Quick is being killed. To recap: In late 2008, the humor column ROTFLMAO went the way of the velociraptor when the paper was redesigned. Nothing personal, my editor said, but it would be confusing to have two columns by one person. Understandable.
Then earlier this year, the Girl Talk podcast (and the others on the site) was killed due to budget cuts. Other freelance pieces I was writing or planning to, like restaurant profiles, fitness trends, music...all gone.
This week, my editor called to let me know the Girl Talk dating column was history as of April. Budget cuts again.
While I had taken the other ones fairly well, losing this one hurt. Big hurt. I actually started crying when we hung up and felt this tremendous, tearing grief for the professional identity I've crafted through my Quick work. I have adored writing dating pieces, getting to talk to people and have them trust me with their stories, their pain, their joy, their wisdom. I am always honored to earn that trust.
In the days since then, I've reflected on what I learned while doing this work and I have decided to own my own brand, own my own professional image, and keep doing it all on my own. My website is being relaunched this week (designed by the super-duper Angela Faz!) and I intend to start a link at leahshafer.com/blog that is dedicated to my work. I will continue to make podcasts, continue to write dating pieces. I even got a nibble from another publication interested in carrying some of my relationship work. That is absolutely thrilling.
So, a loss. A sad one. And an opportunity to grow professionally. That dating book I have been fiddling about on for a year now, I feel its siren call very loud this week. The general theme now is, "How NOT to suck: Being good at your relationship is easier than you think."
I am optimistic and content. I have faith that the future will take care of itself beautifully as long as I keep showing up, doing the work, and aiming my creativity in its direction. |
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| A little before and after |
[Feb. 27th, 2009|11:16 am] |
Matilda got spayed two weeks ago and was a sad little creature the day she got home. But within 48 hours, she was all naughty and all busy once again.
All healed up! |
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